on being a gentleman

He is strong, even “violent” in pursuit of his goals, yet gentle with those he loves.
He respects his wife as an equal but is never dominated by her.
He is fierce hearted, yet wise-minded.
He protects his family, acts with a sense of duty, but refuses to adhere to nonsensical tradition and doctrine.
He is a fearless individual, yet part of a larger group of men.
He is successful in his endeavors, but isn’t consumed by “success.”
His word is sacrosanct, yet he is kind to others’ choices